MARRIAGE ADVISE FOR SINGLE PEOPLE

MARRIAGE ADVISE FOR SINGLE PEOPLE

By Alan Yusko

Choosing a life partner is a big task. Here I’ll write some things that will aid a person from making the biggest mistake in their life. The days are evil and soon the Lord Jesus will return. It is very important to pick a Godly spouse should God lead you into marriage. One thing people have to realize is people act one way before marriage and another way after marriage.

Here is an example. There was a girl about to be married. She spent all her time with her husband-to-be. They even went to football games together. Rain or shine they would huddle together and watch the game. Did that continue after marriage? No it did not. I’m not saying they have a bad marriage but one thing for sure. If it was raining she had no time to go to a football game with her husband.

There can be other things that change after the marriage. Many wives begin to nag their husbands. These poor guys just cannot do anything right and their wives are the first to make that known. Do these ladies nag their boyfriends like this before marriage? No, they are usually on their best behaviour.

My point is that before marriage couples tend to treat each other differently than they do after the marriage. This is why it is very important to pick a partner based on Godly, Biblical standards. Here are some pointers:

ONLY MARRY A BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN

1) Only marry a born-again Christian. This should be a no-brainer! However, I have heard many people disagree over the years. The Bible warns about an unequal yoke. It is a very dangerous thing. Here is what the Bible says:

2 Cor 6
14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.
18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.

For a Christian to marry a non-Christian is to create an unequal yoke marriage. This will result in great strains and troubles. The Christian loves and wants to please God and the non-Christian does not. Even something like Christian training of children may become an issue in this type of marriage. There is also a danger of the non-Christian partner growing hostile to Christianity over the years. As a person rejects the Gospel their heart grows a bit harder each time. There are those who become openly hostile to anything Christian or Bible related. Being married to such a person can be a great strain.

Let me make another point. Some people agree that they can only marry a Christian but then argue that it is acceptable to date a non-Christian. This is also very dangerous. There is no such thing as missionary dating. The danger is in getting too involved emotionally as a person missionary dates. Another danger is the person faking some kind of conversion… until after the marriage! Simply obey God and stay away from romantic relationships with non-Christians! In the long term you will be spared a multitude of heartbreaks!

ONLY MARRY A SINGLE PERSON

2) The second piece of advise I want to give is to only marry a single person. Again, this should be a no-brainer, but in these last days it is not. Today people, including professing Christians, are divorcing and remarrying. We know of one lady who had divorced husband number three … or was that number four? I lost count. But each time she had a ‘church’ wedding in her liberal church. The marriage lasted for awhile before going sour. But if you were to talk to this person she would sound like a professing Christian lady. When she hunts for her next husband she seeks them out in the church singles groups. What more can be said? Stay away from the divorced. Only marry a never-been-married single person or a person whose spouse has died.

Let me make a quick clarification about what I just said. I’m not saying a person cannot get divorced. There may be abusive situations (like a Christian marrying and abusive non-Christian) where divorce is called for. The issue is not divorce. Instead it is remarriage. Like it or not, once married the bond lasts until death-do-you part. It is a vow made before God and is not to be taken lightly. Here is what the Bible says:

Romans 7
1 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.

I think the Bible is very clear. Marriage is dissolved at death. For a person to divorce and then remarry is to commit the sin of adultery. Look at the following verse.

Matt 5
31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

Notice that the Bible does not forbid divorce. Those who get remarried again and again are very quick to point that out. I have to agree. There are conditions that merit a divorce. However, look at the rest of the verse. Verse 32 say very clearly that if a person marries a divorced person, they are committing adultery. The only time a married person can remarry is when their partner is dead. At that time the marriage bond is broken and the person is free to marry again.

So single person, when choosing a lifetime partner be careful. Avoid at all costs the divorced person. I’ve seen them! They have read all kinds of books and have justified in their own minds that everything is fine before God. However, the Word of God paints a different picture! Choose only a fellow born again Christian and only marry another single person!

LISTEN TO PARENTAL ADVISE

3) The final piece of advise for single people is to get parental advise when marrying. I believe God gives parents supernatural wisdom and discernment for their children. Seek their advise as parents also want the best for their children. Parents have the ability to view the relationship in an unbiased and objective manner that the people involved cannot do. Parents also have a lifetime of experience to draw from which aids in judging the character of a person. It does not matter if your parents are Christian or not. They still have the ability to judge character and they want the best for their children. Seek out and listen to the advise of your parents!

Proverbs 1
8 My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother:

CONCLUSION

Remember that marriage is very serious business. Be sure to marry only another born again Christian who loves the Lord Jesus. It is a big responsibility and a big decision. Part of that decision involves raising children as a Godly seed before the Lord. It is important to have the Lord in the center of your marriage. This can only be done by marrying a Bible believing, born-again Christian! Also remember that when you do get married it is a lifetime commitment. Marriage is not until divorce-do-you part but rather until death-do-you part!

Eccl 5
4 When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed.
5 Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay.

Hebrews 13
4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Andy Stanley’s New Tirade Against the Church Proves He’s a Demonic Three-Fold Son of Hell

Andy Stanley’s New Tirade Against the Church Proves He’s a Demonic Three-Fold Son of Hell

Posted by Marsha West ∙ March 6, 2021 ∙ In OpinionBiblical Illiteracy, Church, Coronavirus – COVID-19, False Doctrine, False Gospel, False Teacher, Progressive Christianity, United States Government, Stanley Andy

“We can only hope by then that while Northpoint remains closed, most of the congregants come under the conviction of the Holy Spirit and leave to find biblical churches led by pastors who don’t have their smarminess dialed to 10 and their deviltry cranked to 11.”

(Protestia – Op-Ed) North Point Community Church “impastor” Andy Stanley continued his wretched job of being seen as the elder statesman of evangelicalism, with his new declaration that he was “embarrassed” at how churches were battling governments for the right to have their church service. Continue reading →

https://christianresearchnetwork.org/2021/03/06/andy-stanleys-new-tirade-against-the-church-proves-hes-a-demonic-three-fold-son-of-hell/

Eruption imminent? Fagradalsfjall volcano activity in Iceland; 3300 earthquakes have been recorded during the last 48 hours with a further 20,000 in the last week; there remains a high risk of strong earthquake activity with magnitudes between M6,0 to M6,5 because of crustal stress changes

Eruption imminent? Fagradalsfjall volcano activity in Iceland; 3300 earthquakes have been recorded during the last 48 hours with a further 20,000 in the last week; there remains a high risk of strong earthquake activity with magnitudes between M6,0 to M6,5 because of crustal stress changes

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Dense earthquake activity in Fagradalsfjall volcano. Copyright of this image belongs to Icelandic Met Office.

With almost 800 quakes mag 4 or higher and an astonishing 26 above mag 6 or higher rocking the eastern margin of the Australia plate since the first day of 2021 resulting in the biggest major quake of the year at mag 8.1 and the highest total of major quakes recorded in the first 65 days of the year ever, you would think other seismic events around the world couldn’t get any more dramatic than what is happening down under right now, well, think again. Thousands of miles north of the eastern margin of the Australia plate during the last 48 hours over 3300 earthquakes have been recorded by the Icelandic Met Office with a grand total of more than 20,000 this week. We could well be witnessing an imminent eruption here as well as another Great Honshu event that happened along the Eastcoast of Fukushima in 2011 down-under off the Eastcoast of Australia and Northern New Zealand.

http://www.thebigwobble.org/2021/03/eruption-imminent-fagradalsfjall.html

B-52 heavy bomber over Persian Gulf in signal to Iran

B-52 heavy bomber over Persian Gulf in signal to Iran

Today (Sunday), Israeli Air Force F-15 fighter jets escorted two American B-52 bombers through Israeli airspace.

It was the seventh mission into CENTCOM’s area of operation in the last four months and the second deployment of the heavy bomber since Joe Biden became president on January 20.

The US has been trying to get the Iranians to return to the negotiating table to discuss its illicit nuclear program and in the meantime has dispatched the B-52 heavy bombers and recently attacked Iranian militia targets in Syria.

Last week, Defense Minister Benny Gantz said that Israel was updating its attack plans against Iran’s nuclear facilities.

"We have them [the attack plans] in our hands, but we will continue [to] constantly improve them," Gantz said.

https://www.jpost.com/middle-east/biden-sends-b-52-heavy-bomber-over-persian-gulf-in-signal-to-iran-661210

Amazon quietly banning more conservative, patriotic books by claiming they contain “hate speech”

Amazon quietly banning more conservative, patriotic books by claiming they contain “hate speech”

(Natural News) Truths that some people may find uncomfortable or inconvenient are still truths, but if you’re an all-powerful big tech oligarch who has an iron grip on information, only your version of ‘the truth’ gets to be told.

As such, Amazon — the e-tailer behemoth that actually began as a bookseller — is now banning books just … [Read More…]

https://www.naturalnews.com/2021-03-05-amazon-banning-conservative-patriotic-books-claiming-hate-speech.html

Same AP that once pushed propaganda for Adolf Hitler now pushing transgenderism with extreme media bias

Same AP that once pushed propaganda for Adolf Hitler now pushing transgenderism with extreme media bias

(Natural News) The Associated Press (AP) is taking aim at legislators who are trying to protect women’s sports against the transgender invasion, claiming none of them have provided any evidence that any females are being harmed by the LGBTQ policy.

Some 20 states have introduced bills so far this year to ban transgender "girls" – … [Read More…]

https://www.naturalnews.com/2021-03-06-ap-propaganda-hitler-pushing-transgenderism-extreme-bias.html

UPDATE: Swarm of 20,000 quakes could make Iceland’s volcanoes erupt…

UPDATE: Swarm of 20,000 quakes could make Iceland’s volcanoes erupt…

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UPDATE: Swarm of 20,000 quakes could make Iceland’s volcanoes erupt…

(LiveScience) – More than 20,000 earthquakes have shaken southern Iceland this week, rattling the capital city of Reykjavik and keeping geologists on their toes as all signs point to a pending volcanic eruption, the Icelandic Meteorological Office (IMO) reported on Thursday (March 4).

https://endtimeheadlines.org/2021/03/update-swarm-of-20000-quakes-could-make-icelands-volcanoes-erupt/

Washington Supreme Court opens door to forcing religious organizations to hire LGBT individuals

Washington Supreme Court opens door to forcing religious organizations to hire LGBT individuals

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Washington Supreme Court opens door to forcing religious organizations to hire LGBT individuals

(OPINION) TheBlaze – The Washington state Supreme Court reversed a lower court’s decision this week regarding legal exemptions for religious employers, in a move that could open the door to forcing religious organizations to hire LGBT employees.

https://endtimeheadlines.org/2021/03/washington-supreme-court-opens-door-to-forcing-religious-organizations-to-hire-lgbt-individuals/

NY Democrat wants sex ed for kindergartners, older students could be taught about hormone blockers and pansexuals

NY Democrat wants sex ed for kindergartners, older students could be taught about hormone blockers and pansexuals

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NY Democrat wants sex ed for kindergartners, older students could be taught about hormone blockers and pansexuals

(TheBlaze) – A Democratic New York lawmaker introduced a bill to teach comprehensive sex ed to kindergartners. The sex education will reportedly be outsourced to a left-wing organization that believes, “Sex ed is a vehicle for social change,” including incorporating social and racial justice messaging into their sex ed lessons.

https://endtimeheadlines.org/2021/03/ny-democrat-wants-sex-ed-for-kindergartners-older-students-could-be-taught-about-hormone-blockers-and-pansexuals/

Alabama Senate Overwhelmingly Votes to Ban Transgender Treatments for Minors

Alabama Senate Overwhelmingly Votes to Ban Transgender Treatments for Minors

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Alabama Senate Overwhelmingly Votes to Ban Transgender Treatments for Minors

(CBN) – The Alabama Senate voted Tuesday to prevent minors under the age of 19 from receiving puberty-blockers, hormone therapy or transgender surgery, making such gender-altering treatments a felony in the state.

https://endtimeheadlines.org/2021/03/alabama-senate-overwhelmingly-votes-to-ban-transgender-treatments-for-minors/

Austria halts injections of AstraZeneca Covid vaccine batch as authorities probe death

Austria halts injections of AstraZeneca Covid vaccine batch as authorities probe death

Austria halts injections of AstraZeneca Covid vaccine batch as authorities probe death

Austrian health officials have flagged a batch of AstraZeneca as a precaution while probing the death of a nurse who received the vaccine. Authorities say they have yet to find evidence linking the fatality to the drug, however.

https://www.rt.com/news/517454-austria-astrazeneca-vaccine-death/

Swiss voters support ‘burqa ban’ that outlaws wearing of facial coverings in public places

Swiss voters support ‘burqa ban’ that outlaws wearing of facial coverings in public places

Swiss voters support ‘burqa ban’ that outlaws wearing of facial coverings in public places

Covering your face in public for non-medical reasons will become illegal in Switzerland after a proposal dubbed a “burqa ban” was accepted by a narrow margin of voters in a binding national referendum on Sunday.

https://www.rt.com/news/517466-switzerland-vote-burqa-ban/

First Week of COVID Experimental Vaccines in South Korea: 7 DEAD and More than 2,800 Injured

First Week of COVID Experimental Vaccines in South Korea: 7 DEAD and More than 2,800 Injured

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South Korea finished its first week of rolling out long-awaited Covid-19 inoculations in the country with thousands of suspected adverse reactions to AstraZeneca’s vaccine, seven of which resulted in deaths.

The number who died after the jab rose by four in the past two days, according to a report on Saturday by South Korea’s Disease Control and Prevention Agency (KDCA), which is investigating the incidents.

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A nursing home worker in Seoul is shown last week receiving South Korea’s first Covid-19 vaccination shot. © Reuters / Jung Yeon-je – Image source.

Vaccines were administered to more than 296,000 people, or about 0.6 percent of the country’s population, during the first week of the rollout.

South Korea has reported more than 2,800 adverse reactions from Covid-19 vaccines, but only 24 of those cases were deemed severe, including the seven that resulted in death.

https://humansarefree.com/2021/03/first-week-of-covid-experimental-vaccines-in-south-korea-7-dead-and-more-than-2800-injured.html

A Storm Over the American Republic

A Storm Over the American Republic

by Guy Millière • March 7, 2021 at 5:00 am

  • The atmosphere in the United States remains poisonous. Critics claim that stoking in the public is being done on purpose — to create a false narrative that not only is Trump supposedly a "threat to democracy," but that his more than 74 million supporters are, too. Others, however, claim that the real threat to democracy is actually these serial liars, violators of the Constitution and falsifiers of information.
  • The right to challenge and criticize, which is an integral part of the freedom of speech guaranteed by the First Amendment, appears seriously threatened. The right to defend oneself against charges also appears threatened, and the legal profession dangerous to practice.

https://www.gatestoneinstitute.org/17147/storm-over-american-republic

B-52s Again Fly Over Mideast in US Military Warning to Iran

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A pair of B-52 bombers flew over the Mideast on Sunday, the latest such mission in the region aimed at warning Iran amid tensions between Washington and Tehran.The flight by the two heavy bombers came as a pro-Iran satellite channel based in Beirut broadcast Iranian…

https://www.newsmax.com/newsfront/persian-gulf-tensions/2021/03/07/id/1012830/

CODE RED: On Cuomo’s Orders, Records For The New York State Department of Health Intentionally Falsified To Co nceal Mass Murder Of COVID Elderly

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CODE RED: On Cuomo’s Orders, Records For The New York State Department of Health Intentionally Falsified To Conceal Mass Murder Of COVID Elderly

March 6, 2021

Cuomo issued the order that sent thousands of COVID-infected elderly back to the nursing homes, they died and then he lied and covered it up….

https://www.nowtheendbegins.com/andrew-cuomo-ordered-covid-infected-patients-back-to-nursing-homes-then-lied-coverup-sexual-assault-allegations/

NTEB HOUSE CHURCH SUNDAY MORNING SERVICE: Decades Of ‘Seeker Sensitive’ Services By Evangelicals Have Create d A Hopelessly Confused Church

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NTEB HOUSE CHURCH SUNDAY MORNING SERVICE: Decades Of ‘Seeker Sensitive’ Services By Evangelicals Have Created A Hopelessly Confused Church

Right now, Joe Biden is trying to have a transgender who believes in chemical castration and genial mutilation of children confirmed as assistant Secretary of Health. Where is the outrage from the Church? Nowhere, and that’s the problem. Today I would like to bring you a message on clearing up the spiritual confusion you may be experiencing if you attend an evangelical, Charismatic or ‘seeker sensitive’ church. This sermon may make you mad, but it will be the truth in love from the King James bible, and I hope it will be a blessing to you.
March 6, 2021

https://www.nowtheendbegins.com/nteb-house-church-sunday-morning-service-decades-of-seeker-sensitive-services-by-evangelicals-have-created-confused-church/

Gov. Abbott Deploys Texas National Guard, State Troopers to Counter Biden’s ‘Open Border Policies’

Gov. Abbott Deploys Texas National Guard, State Troopers to Counter Biden’s ‘Open Border Policies’

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Texas Governor Greg Abbott announced the deployment of the state’s National Guard and State Troopers to respond to the growing border crisis.

Governor Abbott announced Operation Lone Star “to combat the smuggling of people and drugs into Texas” on Saturday. The operation will integrate the Texas Department of Public Safety (DPS) with the National Guard, Abbott said. He is ordering the deployment of air, ground, marine, and tactical border security assets to high threat areas.

https://www.breitbart.com/border/2021/03/06/gov-abbott-deploys-texas-national-guard-state-troopers-to-counter-bidens-open-border-policies/

Question: “What does the Bible say about praying for the dead?”

Question: "What does the Bible say about praying for the dead?"

Answer: Praying for the dead is not a biblical concept. Our prayers have no bearing on someone once he or she has died. The reality is that, at the point of death, one’s eternal destiny is confirmed. Either he is saved through faith in Christ and is in heaven where he is experiencing rest and joy in God’s presence, or he is in torment in hell. The story of the rich man and Lazarus the beggar provides us with a vivid illustration of this truth. Jesus plainly used this story to teach that after death the unrighteous are eternally separated from God, that they remember their rejection of the gospel, that they are in torment, and that their condition cannot be remedied (Luke 16:19-31).

Alan’s comment: That about sums it up. There is no point in praying anymore for one who has died as their eternity is set at death. If they are saved the dead are now in heaven. If they chose to reject the Lord Jesus and salvation, they died unsaved and are in shoel or hell now. They will wait there until judgment at the great white throne judgment. After judgment they will be thrown forever into the lake of fire.. So dont die unsaved. Right now admit you are a lost sinner and trust the Lord Jesus alone as Lord and Saviour. Do it now as tomorrow could be too late and you could be lost in hell forever and ever.
from gotquestions . org..

False Prophet Pope Francis Arrives Triumphantly In Iraq To Claim Abraham As The Foundation Of His End Times One World Religion Of Chrislam March 5, 2021 False Prophet Pope Francis arrived triumphantly in Iraq this morning to visit Ur of the Chaldees and claim father Abraham for Chrislam..

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False Prophet Pope Francis Arrives Triumphantly In Iraq To Claim Abraham As The Foundation Of His End Times One World Religion Of Chrislam

March 5, 2021

False Prophet Pope Francis arrived triumphantly in Iraq this morning to visit Ur of the Chaldees and claim father Abraham for Chrislam..

https://www.nowtheendbegins.com/pope-francis-arrives-triumphantly-in-iraq-to-claim-abraham-as-foundation-one-world-religion-of-chrislam/

What If World War III Has Already Started Only It’s Like Nothing You Ever Expected? It Began Last Year And Is Already Entering Into Second Phase

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What If World War III Has Already Started Only It’s Like Nothing You Ever Expected? It Began Last Year And Is Already Entering Into Second Phase

March 5, 2021

World War III started last year, only it’s like nothing you ever expected and it uses weapons that no one but bible believers saw coming. …

https://www.nowtheendbegins.com/what-if-world-war-iii-has-already-started-only-its-like-nothing-you-ever-expected/

25TH ON DECK: White House Has Already Begun Substituting VP Harris For ‘President’ Biden As Kamala Takes The Lead In Call With Israeli PM Netanyahu

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25TH ON DECK: White House Has Already Begun Substituting VP Harris For ‘President’ Biden As Kamala Takes The Lead In Call With Israeli PM Netanyahu

March 5, 2021

Vice President Kamala Harris took the reins in a call with Israeli PM Benjamin Netanyahu, something that President Biden should have done. ..

https://www.nowtheendbegins.com/vice-president-kamala-harris-takes-call-with-netanyahu-instead-of-president-biden/

Going on Offense

Going on Offense

HalLindsey.com • March 6, 2021

In Satan Is Alive and Well on Planet Earth, I wrote, “The sword of the Spirit and prayer are the Christian’s offensive weapons.” Today, many followers of Jesus feel banged up and beaten down. American Christians see an unprecedented assault on their religious liberty. And it’s worse in other parts of the world. Authorities in some countries arrest people for publicly reading certain parts of the Bible and jail Christian pastors for preaching the Gospel. In nations, Christians are subjected to unspeakable evil and cruelty.

https://www.hallindsey.com/ww-3-6-2021/